By Elissa Goodman

My body took years to figure this out. Here is what I landed on — and why yours deserves the same patience.
The question I get asked most constantly in my practice is about my nighttime routine. And I want to be incredibly clear before I share anything: this is a protocol built over years of testing, adjusting, and working closely with my own practitioners. It is not a prescription. It is not a suggestion. It is simply what works for my body, at this point in my life, and I share it because transparency is something I believe in deeply.
Your nighttime routine will look different from mine. It should look different from mine.This is where I want to start, because so many of us make the mistake of copying what someone else is doing without understanding why they are doing it. I watch this happen constantly in my practice, and it concerns me deeply.
With that said, here is what I am currently taking at night. (more…)


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